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Adam 4 Adam! Dating can be fun. But it can also suck, and not in a good way. Fortunately, the internet has given us another way to find a good guy to spend time with rather than shooting in the dark at a bar. Gay dating sites are arguably the most versatile as they can be a great place to find business partners, professional or amateur masseurs, guys to swap pics with, and even friends.
Of course, these platforms definitely make it easier to find a guy to fuck with.
It used to be that there were only a handful of dating sites to go to before smartphones became ubiquitous. (Does anyone remember the days of Gay.com?) But ever since Grindr and about a hundred other apps, the market has become saturated. So, to clarify which gay dating, meetup, hookup, or whatever you want to call these web services, I will be going over one of the better-known platforms, Adam4Adam.
Just so you know, this is going to be a long one, but trust me because it is worth it.
To break my usual style, I am going to start by going over how to signup for this site. If you are in a rush to see a digital sea of sex-starved studs, you can register by using your Facebook, Google, or Apple. But to keep your love (or fuck) life separate from the rest of your life, I recommend that you manually create a profile.
After you pick a unique name and password and plug your email in, the site will ask if you are a man, trans, or a couple. Yes, trans folks are welcome as are couples, and in the latter case, there are a lot of them if you are looking for threeways.
Speaking of threeways, the site will ask you if you are into group sex, text chatting, live camming, dating, friendship, and even fetish fun. For best results, I would check all of those boxes. For some reason, there is an option to get the G-rated version which is bereft of nudity. But let's be real, if you are joining a site like this, you want the Not Safe For Work option.
Add a profile photo, check that you've read the TOS and, as a nice bonus, you get 120 FREE credits for the Adam4Adam LIVE video chat. The basic membership includes ads and the webmasters do ask that you either, whitelist them or upgrade to get VIP ACCESS. After that, it's just an issue of setting up your account.
Okay, a Basic account is free and comes with a fine selection of features. Conversation history will be saved for 10 days, and then save 20 conversations on top of that. You can add a total of 150 favorites and blocked profiles, and place 6 photos on your profile.
(By the way, unlike other gay dating apps (**cough, cough** Grinder) you can add NSFW pics to your profile.)
The VIP and PRO packages are very similar in that, besides being ad-free, you can be featured on the first list of search results in your area. You get unlimited conversation history and favorites, and you can block as many people as you want. Also, you can save up to 200 convos and add 15 photos to your profile.
The only distinction between VIP and PRO memberships is that in the latter case, you can be featured on the PRO grid and advertise any (legal) services you have.
VIP and PRO plans can be paid in one month, quarterly, half a year, and annual periods. A VIP account is $10 a month, but at $80 (or $6.67 a month) a yearly package is the better deal. A PRO account is only going to be worth it if you plan to do a lot of business networking here, but only costs $30 a month or $240 for a full year. I suppose if you are a talented masseuse this package could pay for itself in no time.
Other than the basic information about your hair and body type, eye and hair color, and age, you can go into incredible detail about your personal and sexual interests. In the case of the former, you can state if you smoke, drink, and "party," You can also look for what gay tribes you are in, interested in, and with which you are looking for.
Since we are in the age of Twitter, another way to get attention in a search result would be by filling out your description, hobbies, and profession, and also adding a bunch of hashtags to your profile. And since we are in the new old normal (or whatever we are calling it now) specify your recent HIV, COVID-19, and monkeypox test dates and vaccination status.
Further, you can send a "smile" to a guy to get a conversation going. Another way to get a guy's attention would be by favoriting their profile and typing personal notes about why you did. Another tactic you should consider is sending a guy a friend request or unlock your private pictures.
The first thing you should do once your profile is set up is to confirm your email. Otherwise, you will not be able to chat with anyone or get messages. Once that is done you might want to start hunting around for profiles based on guys who are closest to your position.
Unlike so many other websites like this, no matter where you live there are going to be dozens of profiles within ten miles of you, if not within one block of you. And yes, I checked, and this applies to most rural areas, too. There is an impressive number of search tools that allow you to pick a profile based on a guy's relationship status, physical dimensions, age, and interests both personal and sexual.
A new feature is the Wall which shows off guys who have recently added pictures of themselves. This is not the same as being featured, so if you add or change pictures on your profile, you might show up here for free. If you find a fellow you fancy, you can follow their profile kind of like how you can on apps like Hornet. In addition to adding pics to your feed and seeing others do the same, you can also comment on them.
Another nifty feature is the Match engine. This program analyzes your profile and compares the information that you have submitted and what you are looking for, then matches you with people you might like. It is very similar to a Tinder match and then you can swipe left or right to approve a profile. You can explore areas further from you to see if you match with users in places you might travel to. Plus, all of your liked profiles are saved as are guys who match with you.
Besides typical chatting, via text messages, you can hook up with people online using your webcam. Rather than expose your private email by video calling someone on your Skype account, Adam4Adam has a cool cam feature.
When you open your A4A account, you get 200 audio minutes and 100 video minutes for free! After that, you can get a 7-day trial for unlimited calls that costs only a dollar. Just remember that you will be billed $15 a month when the complimentary package expires. To get both 2,500 minutes of audio and video calls for only $5 a month and to double both call times, you only need to put up $10 every thirty days.
To chat with someone you can invite them or use the amazing search engine to find a guy by tags, username, or keywords that might show up in their profile.
The first place to go to find companionship would be by looking for guys who are near you. As said, there are so many guys in most areas you might want to whittle down the number of profiles to something that is more manageable. The search tools allow you to filter through areas down to the city and even add age ranges, preferred ethnicities, and select only guys who have pictures.
(Sadly, there are a lot of profiles that are only faceless torsos or completely blank.)
You can also use the menu to navigate to people who are visiting the site, who is new, and what guys are being featured. Featured profiles are interesting, but the best search option is the men who are popular!
Since there are so many guys online at a time, you don't need to do much to get anyone's attention. Shit, I opened an account, waited half a day with a partially filled-out profile and my inbox was flooded with fellas thirsting for my ass.
Sure, it might have something to do with being incredibly good-looking, but I would bet that this is a common occurrence. As this seems to be the case, you should log in and check your messages. This is not only because guys are trying to get your attention and hooking up is often time sensitive, but because of gifts, you might get.
As I'll get into later they sell sex toys and exclusive underwear, very often at a discount and sometimes you can get deals where you get stuff for free. They also run a blog that keeps you up-to-date about fun fetishes you should look into, LGBTQ celebrity news, and all things which are delightfully queer.
You also should check your email account as well. Not only will it alert you if you are getting attention on A4A but if you have not logged in recently your account will be deleted and lost forever.
Finding dates are great and all that as is making friends. But let's face it, men have needs, and sites like this are great places to get those carnal cravings met. Chatting up guys one at a time is fine and all, but if you really want to get other people's attention then schedule an event. You can do this for free and spell out exactly what you want to do, what kind of guys you want to come to, and where and when it is going to be held.
This feature is entirely free but if you want to up your odds of getting noticed pay to have your event boosted. The one thing you need to be mindful of is to not mention anything having to do with dr*gs, and that includes poppers. If you do, your ad will be removed and your account might even be booted by the webmasters.
Since we are talking about partying, it's always important to practice safe sex and part of that includes being tested and consulting sexual health experts. After all, pissing painfully for a couple of weeks is bad enough, but no one wants to catch a virus that they can't shake.
Unlike any other gay dating site that I know of or most hookup apps, Adam4Adam has a blog and articles about sexual health facts. They are also the only website of this type to have a search engine that will direct you to users who are actual experts in health and you should talk to.
Since I often talk about webcams on my site, let's take a second to look at the webcam models.
Well, they have a lot of them, and as these models are from all over the world you'll see all sorts of colors, body types, and dick shapes. There are one to two hundred hunks online at any given time and the search tools are terrific.
To get access to all of this amorous action, all you need to do is verify your account and you get 120 free credits.
What I review on my site more than anything else are pornstars and where to watch them and where to buy them. Adam4Adam has a massive library of smut from all over cyberspace. They sell full-length fuck movies from TitanMen, Kink.com Gay, Cocky Boys, Bi College Fuck, and many other studios that I have reviewed before. They also have a fantastic number of movies from harder-to-find fap films from Dragon Media, Staxus, and Bad Boy Bondage, among others.
You get free previews of just about every movie's scenes and can stream them to your tablet, mobile phone, computer, and even Smart TV. You can rent them for two days, buy them for life, or pay by the minute until you bust a nut.
And once you register a credit card (you will not be charged) you can get an astounding thirty minutes of movie footage for free! I have been doing these reviews for a long time and I have done a lot of them and I have never seen a deal like this on a dating site.
It is becoming increasingly common for entrepreneurs who operate in cyberspace to come out with branded products to boost their products. A good friend of mine named ThePornDude has done so himself. But most of them don't have that much product to sell and it's usually boring stuff like caps and shirts.
But Adam4Adam has done far more than other sites by coming out with an incredible number of products to make their customers look and feel sexy. They sell several mesh shirts, thongs, and jockstraps. Several of them have five-star ratings from users. They are fairly priced compared to fashion underwear designers and come in sizes Small through XXL.
And this is not the only sort of sexy attire that Adam4Adam's business sells.
Okie-dokie were are finally near the end, but that does not mean that the fun has stopped. I am a big fan of spicing up bedroom activities with tools whether I am going solo, have a partner, or a group of horny sex freaks. Adam4Adam's creators were wise to take this into consideration as they have a massive e-store.
They have every adult bedroom item you could hope for from enema machines to clothing to ick extenders to electrosex gear. Need sex slings or fuck furniture? They have over two dozen of those. Ever thought about getting into urethral play? They have lots of tools to get you started. Hell, they have over one thousand dildos starting at just $7.49 plus shipping. Compared to
Lastly, if you spend $49 or more on your first order, you get a FREE vibrating and pulsing butt plug.
Was that enough detail for you? Well, we are finally at the end and I do not have much else to say. If you skimmed through or skipped to this point this is one of the best gay dating websites on the net. The attention to detail is incredible, but the site is still easy to use. If you spend only a couple of minutes registering an account I guarantee you that you will see cock hungry chaps all around you.
The Basic package is free and upgrading to a VIP account is pretty affordable. You can access this website with your home computer and the mobile app works just as well as the original. And with that endorsement, I am going to give this site a perfect rating of five hands.
Adam 4 Adam! Dating can be fun. But it can also suck, and not in a good way. Fortunately, the internet has given us another way to find a good guy to spend time with rather than shooting in the dark at a bar. Gay dating sites are arguably the most versatile as they can be a great place to find business partners, professional or amateur masseurs, guys to swap pics with, and even friends.
Of course, these platforms definitely make it easier to find a guy to fuck with.
It used to be that there were only a handful of dating sites to go to before smartphones became ubiquitous. (Does anyone remember the days of Gay.com?) But ever since Grindr and about a hundred other apps, the market has become saturated. So, to clarify which gay dating, meetup, hookup, or whatever you want to call these web services, I will be going over one of the better-known platforms, Adam4Adam.
Just so you know, this is going to be a long one, but trust me because it is worth it.
Let Us Start With How The Signup Process Goes
To break my usual style, I am going to start by going over how to signup for this site. If you are in a rush to see a digital sea of sex-starved studs, you can register by using your Facebook, Google, or Apple. But to keep your love (or fuck) life separate from the rest of your life, I recommend that you manually create a profile.
After you pick a unique name and password and plug your email in, the site will ask if you are a man, trans, or a couple. Yes, trans folks are welcome as are couples, and in the latter case, there are a lot of them if you are looking for threeways.
Speaking of threeways, the site will ask you if you are into group sex, text chatting, live camming, dating, friendship, and even fetish fun. For best results, I would check all of those boxes. For some reason, there is an option to get the G-rated version which is bereft of nudity. But let's be real, if you are joining a site like this, you want the Not Safe For Work option.
Add a profile photo, check that you've read the TOS and, as a nice bonus, you get 120 FREE credits for the Adam4Adam LIVE video chat. The basic membership includes ads and the webmasters do ask that you either, whitelist them or upgrade to get VIP ACCESS. After that, it's just an issue of setting up your account.
Here Are The Differences Between Regular, VIP, and PRO accounts
Okay, a Basic account is free and comes with a fine selection of features. Conversation history will be saved for 10 days, and then save 20 conversations on top of that. You can add a total of 150 favorites and blocked profiles, and place 6 photos on your profile.
(By the way, unlike other gay dating apps (**cough, cough** Grinder) you can add NSFW pics to your profile.)
The VIP and PRO packages are very similar in that, besides being ad-free, you can be featured on the first list of search results in your area. You get unlimited conversation history and favorites, and you can block as many people as you want. Also, you can save up to 200 convos and add 15 photos to your profile.
The only distinction between VIP and PRO memberships is that in the latter case, you can be featured on the PRO grid and advertise any (legal) services you have.
VIP and PRO plans can be paid in one month, quarterly, half a year, and annual periods. A VIP account is $10 a month, but at $80 (or $6.67 a month) a yearly package is the better deal. A PRO account is only going to be worth it if you plan to do a lot of business networking here, but only costs $30 a month or $240 for a full year. I suppose if you are a talented masseuse this package could pay for itself in no time.
You Can Customize Your Profile To An Incredible Degree
Other than the basic information about your hair and body type, eye and hair color, and age, you can go into incredible detail about your personal and sexual interests. In the case of the former, you can state if you smoke, drink, and "party," You can also look for what gay tribes you are in, interested in, and with which you are looking for.
Since we are in the age of Twitter, another way to get attention in a search result would be by filling out your description, hobbies, and profession, and also adding a bunch of hashtags to your profile. And since we are in the new old normal (or whatever we are calling it now) specify your recent HIV, COVID-19, and monkeypox test dates and vaccination status.
Further, you can send a "smile" to a guy to get a conversation going. Another way to get a guy's attention would be by favoriting their profile and typing personal notes about why you did. Another tactic you should consider is sending a guy a friend request or unlock your private pictures.
Here Is How You Find Fellas To Flirt With
The first thing you should do once your profile is set up is to confirm your email. Otherwise, you will not be able to chat with anyone or get messages. Once that is done you might want to start hunting around for profiles based on guys who are closest to your position.
Unlike so many other websites like this, no matter where you live there are going to be dozens of profiles within ten miles of you, if not within one block of you. And yes, I checked, and this applies to most rural areas, too. There is an impressive number of search tools that allow you to pick a profile based on a guy's relationship status, physical dimensions, age, and interests both personal and sexual.
A new feature is the Wall which shows off guys who have recently added pictures of themselves. This is not the same as being featured, so if you add or change pictures on your profile, you might show up here for free. If you find a fellow you fancy, you can follow their profile kind of like how you can on apps like Hornet. In addition to adding pics to your feed and seeing others do the same, you can also comment on them.
Another nifty feature is the Match engine. This program analyzes your profile and compares the information that you have submitted and what you are looking for, then matches you with people you might like. It is very similar to a Tinder match and then you can swipe left or right to approve a profile. You can explore areas further from you to see if you match with users in places you might travel to. Plus, all of your liked profiles are saved as are guys who match with you.
You Can Also Call And Chat With Members Live
Besides typical chatting, via text messages, you can hook up with people online using your webcam. Rather than expose your private email by video calling someone on your Skype account, Adam4Adam has a cool cam feature.
When you open your A4A account, you get 200 audio minutes and 100 video minutes for free! After that, you can get a 7-day trial for unlimited calls that costs only a dollar. Just remember that you will be billed $15 a month when the complimentary package expires. To get both 2,500 minutes of audio and video calls for only $5 a month and to double both call times, you only need to put up $10 every thirty days.
To chat with someone you can invite them or use the amazing search engine to find a guy by tags, username, or keywords that might show up in their profile.
Look Up Who Is New, Featured, And Most Importantly Popular
The first place to go to find companionship would be by looking for guys who are near you. As said, there are so many guys in most areas you might want to whittle down the number of profiles to something that is more manageable. The search tools allow you to filter through areas down to the city and even add age ranges, preferred ethnicities, and select only guys who have pictures.
(Sadly, there are a lot of profiles that are only faceless torsos or completely blank.)
You can also use the menu to navigate to people who are visiting the site, who is new, and what guys are being featured. Featured profiles are interesting, but the best search option is the men who are popular!
I Suggest That You Check Your Mailbox Often
Since there are so many guys online at a time, you don't need to do much to get anyone's attention. Shit, I opened an account, waited half a day with a partially filled-out profile and my inbox was flooded with fellas thirsting for my ass.
Sure, it might have something to do with being incredibly good-looking, but I would bet that this is a common occurrence. As this seems to be the case, you should log in and check your messages. This is not only because guys are trying to get your attention and hooking up is often time sensitive, but because of gifts, you might get.
As I'll get into later they sell sex toys and exclusive underwear, very often at a discount and sometimes you can get deals where you get stuff for free. They also run a blog that keeps you up-to-date about fun fetishes you should look into, LGBTQ celebrity news, and all things which are delightfully queer.
You also should check your email account as well. Not only will it alert you if you are getting attention on A4A but if you have not logged in recently your account will be deleted and lost forever.
Set Up A Party But Follow The Rules
Finding dates are great and all that as is making friends. But let's face it, men have needs, and sites like this are great places to get those carnal cravings met. Chatting up guys one at a time is fine and all, but if you really want to get other people's attention then schedule an event. You can do this for free and spell out exactly what you want to do, what kind of guys you want to come to, and where and when it is going to be held.
This feature is entirely free but if you want to up your odds of getting noticed pay to have your event boosted. The one thing you need to be mindful of is to not mention anything having to do with dr*gs, and that includes poppers. If you do, your ad will be removed and your account might even be booted by the webmasters.
Since we are talking about partying, it's always important to practice safe sex and part of that includes being tested and consulting sexual health experts. After all, pissing painfully for a couple of weeks is bad enough, but no one wants to catch a virus that they can't shake.
Unlike any other gay dating site that I know of or most hookup apps, Adam4Adam has a blog and articles about sexual health facts. They are also the only website of this type to have a search engine that will direct you to users who are actual experts in health and you should talk to.
The Exclusive Live Cams Ain't Too Shabby
Since I often talk about webcams on my site, let's take a second to look at the webcam models.
Well, they have a lot of them, and as these models are from all over the world you'll see all sorts of colors, body types, and dick shapes. There are one to two hundred hunks online at any given time and the search tools are terrific.
To get access to all of this amorous action, all you need to do is verify your account and you get 120 free credits.
The Selection Of Movies Is Worth Checking Out
What I review on my site more than anything else are pornstars and where to watch them and where to buy them. Adam4Adam has a massive library of smut from all over cyberspace. They sell full-length fuck movies from TitanMen, Kink.com Gay, Cocky Boys, Bi College Fuck, and many other studios that I have reviewed before. They also have a fantastic number of movies from harder-to-find fap films from Dragon Media, Staxus, and Bad Boy Bondage, among others.
You get free previews of just about every movie's scenes and can stream them to your tablet, mobile phone, computer, and even Smart TV. You can rent them for two days, buy them for life, or pay by the minute until you bust a nut.
And once you register a credit card (you will not be charged) you can get an astounding thirty minutes of movie footage for free! I have been doing these reviews for a long time and I have done a lot of them and I have never seen a deal like this on a dating site.
This Is The Only "Dating" Site I Know Of With Branded Undies
It is becoming increasingly common for entrepreneurs who operate in cyberspace to come out with branded products to boost their products. A good friend of mine named ThePornDude has done so himself. But most of them don't have that much product to sell and it's usually boring stuff like caps and shirts.
But Adam4Adam has done far more than other sites by coming out with an incredible number of products to make their customers look and feel sexy. They sell several mesh shirts, thongs, and jockstraps. Several of them have five-star ratings from users. They are fairly priced compared to fashion underwear designers and come in sizes Small through XXL.
And this is not the only sort of sexy attire that Adam4Adam's business sells.
They Have An Impressive Online Sex Shop
Okie-dokie were are finally near the end, but that does not mean that the fun has stopped. I am a big fan of spicing up bedroom activities with tools whether I am going solo, have a partner, or a group of horny sex freaks. Adam4Adam's creators were wise to take this into consideration as they have a massive e-store.
They have every adult bedroom item you could hope for from enema machines to clothing to ick extenders to electrosex gear. Need sex slings or fuck furniture? They have over two dozen of those. Ever thought about getting into urethral play? They have lots of tools to get you started. Hell, they have over one thousand dildos starting at just $7.49 plus shipping. Compared to
Lastly, if you spend $49 or more on your first order, you get a FREE vibrating and pulsing butt plug.
Have You Been Convinced Yet?
Was that enough detail for you? Well, we are finally at the end and I do not have much else to say. If you skimmed through or skipped to this point this is one of the best gay dating websites on the net. The attention to detail is incredible, but the site is still easy to use. If you spend only a couple of minutes registering an account I guarantee you that you will see cock hungry chaps all around you.
The Basic package is free and upgrading to a VIP account is pretty affordable. You can access this website with your home computer and the mobile app works just as well as the original. And with that endorsement, I am going to give this site a perfect rating of five hands.
- the signup process is super fast and a basic account is free
- you can customize a detailed profile and find guys several ways
- there are ways to pay to get your profile boosted which are free and paid
- between text messages, online calls, and video chats you can connect in all sorts of ways
- they have an extensive e-store and their own brand of underwear
- this site has an impressive collection of exclusive cam models
- other than the usual flakes and trolls on sites like these, adam4adam is pretty great